The Problem with "Free Spells"

i am new to this whole thing. i registered my email address on spells4free.com requesting for a free weight loss/attractiveness spell in return for signing myself up for their newsletter. is that wrong? the spell is on myself because i am tired of diet products/torturing myself with diets/pills/etc..why are some people born luckily thin and yet others work so hard? is it fair? do you think this spell would still have a future threefold effect or whatever the law of return is in a negative way? should i take back my request? 

You say you are new to this whole thing. What whole thing? Wicca? Spells? Getting free stuff?

People want to tell themselves they can get something for nothing, but that expectation is completely unnatural. There is no such thing as a free lunch. You only get out what you put in. Reading someone's "spell" does nothing. Not a thing. If you are interested in working magic, you need to understand how it works. Magic comes from the worker, not words on paper.

Life isn't about being "fair." Life is a complex interaction of causes and effects. Each person has things they are better at or worse at. The fact is any goal you seek requires enough effort to overcome existing obstacles. People with slower metabolisms have bigger obstacles than others when in comes to weight maintenance, but in the end it comes down to understanding you body and its needs and having the fortitude to work with it and not give in to cravings.

I can understand why you are frustrated with diet pills, but you seem to just be replacing one quick fix for another. Without active change on your part, you're not going to lose weight. Even dieting is not a permanent fix. Once you lose the desired weight, you have to continue to keep healthy habits or the weight comes back. That's why most fad diets don't work.

Every choice has consequences. That is what the law of return is about. Sometimes the consequence is a simple as "I asked for a spell, and they emailed me one."

As far as attractiveness, that's in the eyes of the beholder. People who are more confident in themselves tend to gain more positive attention. Telling yourself that you need a spell to be worth someone's attention only feeds your lack of confidence.